Manjoo Reflections
Sometimes I think about the rapper Tupac’s words”…it’s me against the world.” and I can truly say in a way it is kind of us against the world. We all have our own beliefs and our own truths that help us deal with the reality of not only our lives but the world as well. We are stuck between a world of truth and a world of comfortability.
Fahard Manjoo grasps this exact concept in his book, True Enough: Learning to Live in a Post-Fact Society. Manjoo reveals through various stories how we as people select our versions of the truth. We deny irrefutable data and settle with a truth that’s comfortable enough for our lives..a truth that is only true enough.
As I explained to my Public Affairs reporting class, this book really makes me want to immediately go and get my Masters degree in Psychology. Not only did I start questioning objectivity of news in the future but I questioned every lie or truth the world has ever imposed on me. Being that psychology is my second passion after television news, I picked on something Manjoo mentioned about people selecting their own versions of the truth, which in actuality may be inaccuries, but they go a step further and ask others to join their cause..to believe their truth..to deny what is really real.
Instantly, I though hmmm the acclaimed developmental psychologist Jean Piaget must be wrong. EGOCENTRISM doesn’t end in the early preschool years…it just cleverly evolves. In case you’ve never heard of the term before, it was used for younger children who believed that everyone thought as they did and the world shared the same feelings and emotions that they had.
I saw this in the first story of a woman who started a group to encourage HIV/AIDS infected mothers to breastfeed, give birth vaginally, and not take necessary medication to prevent transmission to an unborn child. These are all scientific proven ways that children can acquire the disease, yet this woman is somehow a better expert than researchers and scientist who studied this for years.
There is nothing wrong with living with one’s own beliefs but it becomes a problem when other lives enter the equation. The best example of this isn’t found in politics, health, or education. MUSIC is where selective exposure thrives the best. Take these Lil Wayne lyrics for example:
” Beautiful black women
I bet that bitch look better red”
(Right Above It 2011)
” I like her long hair, thick, red boned”
(Every Girl 2010)
” I like the red bone, pretty feet, cute face
Girl, if that’s you put yo number in my two way.”
Yes, it’s fine that he likes light skinned women but to say in a syndicated song that a dark skinned woman would look better if she was red instantly became the new “ish” for his followers, worshipers, imitators….whatever you want to call them. It sparked so much controversy in the black community because young dark skinned girls felt that they were not pretty because they didn’t have light skinned. It’s almost as if he’s stigmatizing light skinned women to be supreme over dark skinned women.The worse part of this is that he has a large majority of his fans ( mainly the young boys) taking these words and applying them to their lives.
Giving the world the benefit of the doubt, True Enough is not the start of knowing that many people have the tendency to believe what they want to believe, but I just truly think it gets out of hand when people who have no experience on anything become experts or moguls on a subject or worse when subjects that have no clear or accurate answer are given one by some random individual. A question such as “What’s prettier: light skin or dark skin?” A question that should only be taken as one’s opinions.
Manjoo really opened my eyes into questioning the world around me. I’ve always been a skeptical young lady and now after reading this I believe I’ve captured skepticism at its finest. I am stuck between a world of comfortability and a world of truth. I don’t know where my loyalty lies. I don’t know which side I’m on..Do you?